The Sweetest Revenge

It's inevitable that we make at least one enemy in our lives, given the multitude of situations where misunderstanding, miscommunication, ambition, deception, envy or inconsideration may arise. And the most natural thing to do is to concoct sinister plans to make our enemies pay, curse them with misfortune or simply decide not to have anything to do with them. I would suggest a more revolutionary approach: FORGIVENESS. This is because forgiving your enemy reaps the following advantages:

1. It relieves you of the burden/pain of hatred
2. It hurts your enemy in the worst possible way - via his/her conscience.
3. It may even completely destroy your enemy - by transforming him/her into your friend!

Indeed, it is the sweetest revenge of all! Do not just take my word for it - try it out yourself!

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