Is it True Love?

The answer, I'm afraid, is NO.

Well, anyone who asks the above question regarding one's experience of love is clearly not experiencing true love - simply because true love is not an experience of lovey-dovey feelings but a conscious, logical and committed decision to love; you can fall in love but you cannot fall into "true love".

A person who truly loves is 100% sure it's true love because it's a decision that he/she has made. Unlike infatuation, puppy love or romantic love, true love is not affected by feelings or circumstances.

Indeed, it's not easy at all to truly love someone because it may/may not be supported by nice feelings. In fact, the litmus test of true love is one's decision to love when the beloved becomes a real pain in the neck!

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